Evan in park

Evan in park

Sunday, June 19, 2011

3 Months Old and Father's Day

Evan turned 3 months old today! Wow! time sure has gone quickly! He is doing well and growing and changing every day.  Last week on Monday he weighed 11 pounds and 3 ounces. He has gained 3 pounds since he was born! His MSUD is still being managed very well with his diet and isoleucine and valine supplements. Last week he gave us a scare. He decided he no longer wanted to eat 4 ounces and would sometimes barely want to finish eating 2 ounces.  Of course since refusal to eat can be a sign of metabolic crisis, JR and I were super worried. He was acting normal accept at feeding times.  After a few days I finally called the geneticist and he told us it was normal for babies to change their eating patterns and to not worry as long as he ate his protein bottles (enfamil) and took his supplements.  After another day of him being a pill when it came time to eat I thought it may be the bottle because it was just the bottle he didn't want. I eventually went to the store and bought a NUK brand bottle since the nipple is the same shape as his pacifier. Sure enough...next feeding he took 4 ounces! He has been eating better ever since. Thank goodness I figure something out because I don't know how much longer I could have gone with him fighting the bottle!

Today was also Father's Day! We had a nice relaxing day hanging out at home. Then we went to Olive Garden for a Father's Day lunch. Afterward we stopped by Babies R Us to pick up a few things for Evan.  Evan made Daddy an impression of his feet and painted them green for his father's day present. It's like a decoration for him to hang in his office. Daddy loved it along with the card that Evan got him.  All in all it was a nice relaxing day as a family.

 

We are all doing well. Just getting ready for our vacation to Florida for our friend's wedding and then our trip to Illinois so Evan can meet more of his family. We are all looking forward to getting away for a few days.

Tuesday, June 7, 2011

Summer is officially here!



Summer has officially hit Albuquerque and it's HOT!  (and smokey. For those of you that don't know, the AZ fires are causing some major smoke here in Abq). Things are going well and we are enjoying the nice weather. Evan, Wrigley and I get out a bit and walk, but only in the morning because it gets too warm later in the day. Evan loves to be outside. It's pretty windy here in Abq, but he seems to like the wind most of the time. 

Evan is doing great! His leucine levels are finally at the normal range (116)!  We have been chasing them up since he was released from the hospital (which is pretty typical of MSUD cases).  We are finally in the normal range. Now we just need them to stay there! We will continue to get weekly blood tests and weight checks so the dietician can help us to adjust his diet each week.  The dietician determines how much protein he should get to keep his leucine levels normal. In addition to his protein formula (Enfamil) she also tells us how much of each of his valine and isoleucine supplements he should get. Obviously it's been working, so we are very happy with that!

Although the doctors have been great, dealing with the insurance has been a nightmare! They are supposed to cover everything...his formula and supplements, and they will, but it's been quite a process to get there! The initial referral was, I guess, not written correctly, so when we went to get Evan's supplements from the pharmacy they wouldn't pay for them. (They will reimburse us, but that's a whole other process).  In speaking to our TriCare case manager, she determined we would have to get our supplements and formula from a healthcare company that could send them to the house and the only one she found that would deliver both was Apria Healthcare. Great...we thought...when they found a company. Of course, then there was a delay because they didn't have these items in their system (since MSUD is so rare) and had to add them which would take at least another 2 weeks.  UGH! More waiting! Luckily, Nutricia (the company that makes Evan's formula) has been AWESOME and have sent us more sample cans as requested by Evan's dietician. They have been so wonderful in making sure we are never without what Evan needs.  Now we have FINALLY starting getting our shipments from Apria, however we have only gotten his supplements.  I called today and the formula was supposed to be delivered to the local branch today. I am supposed to get a call back letting us know when we will have his formula here at home...I am not holding my breath! I call this company almost daily to make sure we are getting what we need. It just goes to remind me that it's true that as a parent we are our children's only advocates. If we don't speak up and fight for them, no one else will! I will ALWAYS fight for my son! So that's my rant about the insurance and healthcare company.  Eventually it will get figured out, but for now it is my biggest frustration. 

Our life in Albuquerqe is going well. I turned 30 a week ago today and we had friends over on Memorial Day to celebrate. It was really great to have friends in the house and to hang out. It reminds me that no matter where the AF takes us, we always have friends!  Speaking of friends, some of our best friends from our time at Moody will be PCSing (permanent change of station for you civilian people out there) here to Albuquerque in the fall. It will be great to have these familiar friends around again! :)

Gary (JR) is doing well too! He is busy with work, as always, but seems to be enjoying it most of the time.   He likes the people he works with and what he does, so that always helps.  He is going to Vegas this week for the Pedro 66 memorial.  (Pedro 66, for those of you who don't know, was the rescue helicopter that went down last year in Afghanistan).   As sad as it will be, he is glad to be able to go and be a part of it and to remember his friends.  Other than work, he has been enjoying grilling since it's summer again and he is back on the four wheeler enjoying the sunny Albuquerque weather. I am hoping to get on the four wheeler a bit this summer since last year I didn't really get to enjoy it being pregnant. 

I think that's about all going on in the lives of the Miller family. We are looking forward to the rest of the summer and traveling to Florida for a friend's wedding and then up to Chicago so family and friends can meet our precious angel, Evan! We will try to see as many of you as we can when we travel to Illinois, but please forgive us if we run out of time. There are lots of you and only 3 of us! Love to you all! :) Hope the beginning of the summer is finding you all as well as it's finding us!

Monday, May 16, 2011

Grandma and Grandpa Miller came for a visit!

Grandma and Grandpa Miller with Evan on top of Sandia
Last week, Grandma and Grandpa Miller drove in for a visit. They stayed from Wednesday until Sunday. It was really nice to have them here and I know they were very excited to meet Evan as we were excited for them to meet him. During their visit, they got to go out to see the helicopters and we took them up to Sandia Peak on the Tram. It was Evan's first trip up to Sandia and on the tram. I carried him around in the baby bjorn and he was cozy as could be! He did GREAT the whole time!
Our little family at the top of the Tramway at Sandia Peak


Since I last posted, Evan has been smiling so much more! He even smiled at me today right before the nurses poked him to draw his blood! :) He is also very aware and constantly looking around. He follows his mobile on his swing and gets upset when it stops. He even rolled over during tummy time on Tuesday (May 10)! It was too funny! I think he scared himself because he started to cry after he rolled to his back.

3 Generations of Miller Boys!



Evan also seems to be starting a schedule for himself where he takes a good 2 hour morning nap and then naps again in the afternoon. Hopefully this is the beginning of a more normal schedule so mommy can anticipate what each day will be like.


At today's weight check, Evan was 4.2 kilos which is about 9 lbs and 3 ounces! He's getting to be a big boy. This weekend I held a friend's baby girl who is 7 lbs 2 ounces (Evan's weight at birth) and it was so strange to feel how light she felt. I can't believe how quickly Evan is growing. Even the nurses commented on how long he looked this morning. He is about 21 inches long now! Our little weed is growing quickly!

Monday, May 9, 2011

First Mother's Day

Yesterday I celebrated my first Mother's Day as a mommy! It was wonderful! It started with a delivery of flowers from Evan (I am sure Daddy had a little hand in that too :) ) I got to relax and hang out with Evan while Daddy vacuummed and did some cleaning! Quite a break for mommy! Then we went to lunch at a local brick oven baked pizza joint. The pizza was yummy, but the salad was even better! Later we had a nice family walk (yes...with Wrigley too)! Finally, we make chicken kabobs for dinner and enjoyed a quiet dinner at home as a little family! :)

Daddy is doing well too! Working lots and going to school. He is taking classes to finish his Community College of the Air Force Associates Degree. He has 2 classes left to go and he will have 3 (I think) associates degrees. Don't ask me in what because I can never remember. He is hoping to continue school while we are stationed here in Albuqeurque and maybe even finish his Bachelor's Degree.

Evan is doing well and learning new things every day! He smiles more and is starting to coo when he plays with his toys. His favorite is still his playmat. He also loves listening to songs and stories and of course swinging. He has learned to like bath time and really enjoys when you pour the warm water over his head.
He's also gotten better hand eye coordination as now he can actually hit the toys hanging above him on his playmat. The first time he did that, he startled himself, but now he seems to do it with purpose. Evan does okay with tummy time, but sometimes he just doesn't want to lay on his tummy. He is getting better and better and lifting his head and shoulders off the ground. He's quite a strong little guy! He also had his 40 day blessing in the Greek Orthodox church last Sunday, May 1st. He was quiet and did great the whole time!


Today we had his weekly appointment and he is now up to 3.95 kilos, which is about 8 lbs 11 oz. They also measured his length and he is 21 inches long. He is eating between 3 and 4 ounces every 3 to 4 hours. He is pretty good at going right back to sleep after he eats at night. Hopefully he stays that way because mommy enjoys getting at least a little bit of sleep!

Tuesday, April 26, 2011

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Monday, April 25, 2011

2 weeks at home

We have been at home for 2 weeks (tomorrow) and all continues to go well! Last week we had our first metabolic clinic appointment where we met with the geneticist, genetic counselor, and dietician to discuss Evan's progress and course of treatment. Everyone continues to be pleased with his progress and he is continuing to put on wait! He was 7.2 lbs at metabolic clinic last Monday and today at his weight check and blood draw he was 7.92 lbs! Eating and gaining weight like a champ! (Both are VERY good signs).  Right now we will continue to do weight checks and blood draws every Monday and then meet monthly with the genetic team. After each weight check, the dietician looks at the information and determines how much protein Evan should be getting. Right now he gets his protein from breastmilk, but we will soon switch to a regular infant formula as the pumping and feeding is not going as well as I as was hoping. The geneticist gets the results of Evan's bloodwork and determines if we need to continue to supplement the acids isoleucine and valine, then tells us how much of each we are to give him.  This bloodwork also helps to determine how much protein Evan should eat.
 
Evan is growing and changing every day! He LOVES his playmat. He lies there and looks at the lights and listens to the music. When it stops...he starts to cry to get you to start it for him again. He has startled himself a few times by actually hitting the toys that hang above him.  He also likes his swing a lot. He will calm easily when he swings and he also likes to just look up at the mirror and mobile on his swing. 

Aunt Michelle and Uncle Jason with Evan
Aunt Michelle (JR's sister) and Uncle Jason came for a visit last week. We enjoyed having them and I know they enjoyed getting to meet Evan. We got a chance to go out to the botanical gardens and have Aunt  Michelle take some pics of Evan with the flowers and for our birth announcements. They turned out super cute! (Thanks Michelle!)

My 512th Ladies and I on Spouse Day
As for JR and I, we have been adjusting to our new schedule with Evan and trying to sleep when we can. JR is back at work, so night time feeds often fall on me, which is okay since I can try to nap during the day if need be.  On Friday I got to go on a spouse flight FINALLY! (I kept missing them when we were stationed at Moody).  It was so cool to finally get to fly in a helicopter and see what my husband does each day! What an amazing view he has from his "office" in the sky! :) I will definitely fly again when the chance arises!
Easter morning before heading to our friend's house
We celebrated Easter this year with some friends by going to a BBQ.  It was small, but nice to have friends to spend time with for the holiday.


 All continues to go well here and we hope you can say the same!